Today started out much like any other day: woke up, fed the cats, rode my bike.
From there it veered to the crazy side when I ended up in the apartment of a stranger who read my mail without even realizing he was doing it, leaving me in a bit of a tailspin.
When Chris was leaving I helped him carry some plants to his truck parked in the street. I was lagging behind because Benjamin Franklin was dipsy doodling behind me, and I wanted to make sure he stayed on the sidewalk. As I got closer, I saw a guy approaching. He had a funny look on his face and the thought crossed my mind ‘this guy’s off’ as I went to cross the street.
It turns out I never made it across the street because he rolled up and asked if Frank was my cat. I said yes and he proceeded to excitedly tell me how he had had an almost identical cat for 23 years, just moved to the neighborhood a few months ago, was feeling sad one day looking at a painting of his cat when he opened the door to walk to the beach and saw Frank on the sidewalk. He said it was almost like a premonition and he had to look twice to make sure it wasn’t his dead cat. Obviously it wasn’t, but it really made his day and cheered him up.
That warmed my heart because I think Frank’s a little healer (see here).
By this time Chris had joined us, we all shook hands as the guy introduced himself and vice versa. He told us some more about his cat, reiterated how Frank had made his day, and asked if we wouldn’t mind to come over and see the painting of his cat because the resemblance was so uncanny.
Chris exited stage left, leaving me like a branch in the wind.
Next thing I know I’m having water with this guy and he’s giving me the rundown of his job history. Nothing out of the ordinary, just small talk, getting-to-know-the-neighbor type stuff after seeing the painting of the cat which really was legit.
Then it got wild.
Without divulging too much, let’s just say this guy’s line of work is in alternative medicine. He tells me some stories about people he’s worked with, how he ended up doing what he does and all sorts of places he’s traveled around the world to work. I mean, truly fascinating stuff. He’s into natural methods of healing and I’m particularly curious about that, so try to listen with an open mind while keeping my eyes on the open window behind him in case I need to jump out.
At one point, after telling me a LOT, he asks if I think he’s crazy. I tell him no, that I think he’s in a period of transition and a tough spot where he can’t see exactly what is going to happen next, but that he should remember every time in the past where he’s been in a similar situation and somehow, in some way, been linked to the right opportunity.
The guy sits up in his chair, closes his eyes, takes a deep breath and, without knowing anything about my personal situation, says: What you just said to me is actually a message for you. <I’m all DA F*CK did he just say? eyeball emoji> He carries on: you are in a time of transition feeling a lot of strain. Do not be afraid, it will pass. Things will be tight for awhile, but everything is going to work out. It’s like a child learning to ride a bike. Sometimes they want to keep the training wheels on after they’re able to balance, even though those little wheels aren’t even supporting them anymore. That’s you, you’re about to shed your wheels.
Dude. I quit my job two months ago. Technically I’m self-employed so I basically just stopped doing what I do. I’ll still do searches for businesses/people I like and feel a connection with, but I made the very scary decision to stop the busy work and open myself up to new opportunities. No one knows that except Chris and a few of my friends (and now all 20 of you who read here).
I’ve been stressed as eff trying to figure out what I’m going to do and then this random shows up talking about my wheels falling off? Don’t think I missed the irony in that, btw.
I don’t want to read to much into it, but the hairs on my arms did stand up a little.
He also got up mid-conversation and did a double axel in the middle of the living room, so there’s that to take into consideration.
I have no doubt in my mind that this guy is a bit of a whackadoodle but hey, if God could speak to Balaam through a donkey I’m not going to disregard that He could be encouraging me through a cuckoo bird. (Numbers 22:28-40 ESV)
And how was YOUR Tuesday?
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Nothing like this. I think anyone could relate to his comments. Life changes rapidly these days. But he does seem like an observant neighbor.
It was much more than observant because I had never seen the guy before and he had zero knowledge of me and my life. He said many things in the two hours we talked, highly applicable, specific things there is no way he could have planned or randomly tossed out. That said, I also said some timed things to him that left us both in a WHOA state. It was quite a day and one I will not forget.
Ok again you and your encounters with these people is not random. It always happens for a reason and to send you some sort of message. It’s crazy I’ve known you for 22 yrs and you & I both know that this is pretty normal for you
You always find your way & like the cuckoo bird said you’re in transition and in the process of shedding the training wheels.
It’s so good to have someone know me well. You’ve seen it all and this guy was definitely at the top of the list, CP. It was a crazy day. I’ll fill you in on the many things he said the next time we talk. Fasten your seatbelt.
HOLY–that made the hair on MY arms stand up!
Right??
Wow. That’s kind of incredible.
It takes a LOT of courage to do what you are doing. I’ve wanted to change careers FOREVER and I finally reached my breaking point. I’m currently taking night classes during mat leave to get that ball rolling as quickly as possible. When I feel intimidated and stressed about my change, I will think of you and the one you are taking. I feel very positive that wonderful opportunities will open for you 🙂
Change is scary, but if we don’t try we’ll always wonder ‘what if…’. I’ll be thinking of you, too, and am so glad you found me! It is so good to see you here!!
Whackadoodle or not, the words mean something. And I believe that encounter happened for a reason. I wish I had half the courage you did! You’re amazing! Xoxo
I don’t believe in coincidence,so I do believe the words and meeting were meant for me. I was there for a couple hours and he said many uncanny things having no prior knowledge of me. It was definitely a moment.
i LIVE for experiences like that – the world makes so much more sense when you encounter ‘strange’ things that get your wheels turning … i’ve met a few ‘strange’ characters in my day but every single one of them taught me something of great value and i was so happy i didn’t turn away
xoxo – and as i always say – u got this girl – dip those toes in the sand and ENJOY – it all works out the way it suppose to in the end; and if it didn’t work out, then it’s not the end!
Word up, E!
This was awesome in every way! Including the news about your work!
Trying not to freak and take each day as it comes. After 15 years it’s scary, but exhilarating and this guy’s words were much needed.
Okay, the fact that you included Balaam in the last part of your story just makes it all complete.
What a creepy/fascinating/eye opening experience. Sometimes you hear exactly what you need to hear.
The right words (and even more) at just the right time. Will keep me moving forward!
Well that was certainly a very interesting interaction! Ha ha. Maybe that man was “sent” there just to tell you that…
You have a good point. He said many things that were uncannily applicable to me and I’m going to tuck them into my pocket for encouragement.