Way back when my blog had a bunch of followers, I remember reading a blog conference speaker’s do’s and don’ts for building an audience on social media. The person basically said, don’t be a cat lady. Don’t post a bunch of pictures of your cat, talk about cat things or get crazy about cats. No one wants it. My heart sunk. ‘But I love cats!’, I thought. Bummer. Even though I still mentioned my cats and took pictures of them, I…